There's nothing like cancer, many survivors say, to remind you that nothing is guaranteed... good or bad.
It was tough on teachers when the COVID-19 pandemic suddenly shut everything down in March 2020. Many educators were fortunate to be able to work virtually — out of harms’ way.
Those who had school-age kids simultaneously became teach-from-home and teach-at-home moms. The heavy lifting that required, particularly in the new COVID-19-normal of uncertainty and fear, could be anxiety-inducing.
So, when Renee Garber — a teacher with the Hill Learning Center in Durham, North Carolina — felt a nagging pain in her stomach night after night as she read bedtime stories to her daughters, then 6 and 8, she blamed it on stress.
“I have two young girls. And you know, just juggling everything; I felt stressed a lot,” recalls Garber, a breast cancer survivor.
She wasn’t particularly concerned when her March 2020 oncology appointment at the Duke Cancer Center Breast Clinic — a six-month surveillance visit — was postponed until July.
“It was one less thing to think about having to do,” she thought. Plus, she couldn’t conceive of any acute need to be seen by her oncologist.
Then, gradually, her twice-weekly three-mile runs started leaving her breathless. She was getting so winded that she could barely make it up the stairs without having to sit down again. On Mother’s Day weekend she felt noticeably worse.