Where did the time go?

Elizabeth Beguinet was born in Winnipeg, Canada, north of the Dakotas. Her parents, both originally from Holland, moved the family west to Portland, Oregon, when she was sixteen.

While in her mid-20s, she made a life-changing decision. She enrolled at Mt Hood College in Portland and selected fencing as her PE class. The school’s fencing team coach, Alex Beguinet, from Toulouse, France, was the instructor. They were about the same age, had much in common with their European backgrounds, and they hit it off.

When the semester was over, they started dating. In 1983, they married. Two years later, Alex was recruited to coach fencing at Duke University. Before Elizabeth could complete her degree, they were headed cross-country with their daughter.

Elizabeth had been a volunteer program manager for the Duke Fencing team from the start. Still staying involved with the program, Elizabeth earned her Bachelor’s degree in 2002,in Interdisciplinary Studies (Mathematics, Sociology and Women Studies)from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill as a part time college student over ten years. Once she had earned her degree, she was able to devote all of her time as volunteer manager with Duke Fencing.

Career highlights included serving, in 1991, as a manager at the Olympic Festival in Los Angeles, being team co-manager for the 2006 Junior/Cadet World Championship Team in Taebaek, Korea, and being team co-manager for the 2006 Senior World Championships in Turin, Italy.

A New Year

The sun is flooding through the window of Infusion Room 50 on the fourth floor of Duke Cancer Center Durham. It’s mid-afternoon on Wednesday, January 8, 2020.

“Cancer,” explains Elizabeth, “is just the thing I have, the thing I live with.”

She’s managed to work her infusions (every 21 days) into her busy schedule of recruiting trips, competitions and team functions. Her hair has grown back to shoulder-length since that 2017 video.

“I just had a haircut recently and this could actually be the same dress that I was wearing in that video interview; that would be very funny,” she says, happily agreeing to have a new photo taken.

As what Elizabeth calls her “beloved poisons” cycle through her veins, she speaks frankly about what she calls her “chronic disease.”

She recounts how last August several new tumors appeared on her spine. Radiation therapy quickly took care of it. But an insurance glitch left her with no follow-on treatment at all for three-months.

“During those months, I was scared to death,” Elizabeth shares. “I didn’t know what the November scans were going to show. That was hard. To just keep living… It was overwhelming.”

Adding to the stress, she traveled back and forth twice to the west coast to help her sister after a death in the family.

In November, she was relieved to learn, thanks to “a little bit of luck,” that there was no active cancer anywhere. She resumed treatment. The holidays, spent with family, were quiet.

“We’d just had a loss and everybody was wondering (aloud), “Are you next?”” says Elizabeth. “And I said, “Could be, could be, love me while you got me.””

Beguinet says that fencing skills are good life skills and good coping-with-cancer skills.

“Be in the moment. If your opponent beats you and you are coming off the strip, you can’t dwell on that loss because that next opponent is waiting for you,” she says. “And if you come in wearing the defeat that you just encountered, then you are coming in defeated. You just have to experience what happened, process it, then let it go because in that next moment, you have to be there and be ready to go… especially when you’re in the midst of the fight. From one day to the next, there’s always some new thing that’s being presented to you.”

There’s a sign at the gym that reads “Keep Calm and Parry On.”

“Parry” is a fencing blade-work maneuver intended to deflect or block an incoming attack. If the next incoming is another tumor, she, her family, her Duke oncologist, Paul Kelly Marcom, MD, and her fencing students will do their best to parry on.

Patient Update (January 11, 2023)

The Duke fencing team, in partnership with the Duke Cancer Institute, announced the Fence for the Fight campaign would relaunch for the 2023 season in memoriam of Elizabeth Beguinet who passed away after a long battle with breast cancer on Dec. 17, 2022. The goal is "to raise enough money to name a room after Elizabeth in the Duke Cancer Institute so her memory and her fight will continue to inspire others just as she's inspired us."